RELATIONSHIP RULES & TOOLS
Some "don't" rules in relationship communication
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* don't yell or raise your voice at each other
* don't keep score
* don’t use sweeping generalizations
* don’t give your partner the silent treatment
* don't say mean or personal things
* don’t interrupt your partner when they are talking
* don’t overcomplicate your message
* don’t criticise or shame in public
Some tools for relationship communication
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* listen & don't talk at the same time
* think before you speak
* stay focused on the facts & the problem
* participate with sincerity & honesty
* respect each other & your points of view
* be open to 3rd party help
* explain why you need the behavior change
* cut the blame game
THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES
Lasting relationships take intentional commitment and hard work. When you’re not on the same page, keeping your love alive can feel intimidating, even impossible.
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* relationships grow better when we understand each other
* everyone gives and receives love differently
* with a little insight into these differences, we can be confidently equipped to communicate love well
* like anything worthwhile you will need knowledge & understanding to make your relationship work
* the 5 love languages offer a free quiz for you and your partner to understand how you love and need to receive love
* you will both need the information when we do our relationship meeting